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Here’s Why Princess Diana’s Wedding Was One of the Worst Days of Her Life

Troubled wedding day (Photo Credit: Fox Photos/ Stringer/ Getty Images)
Troubled wedding day (Photo Credit: Fox Photos/ Stringer/ Getty Images)

On July 29, 1981, 750 million viewers worldwide tuned in to watch the royal wedding between Princess Diana and Prince Charles. Although this was supposed to be a joyous occasion, Princess Diana described it as one of the worst days of her life. Read on to learn why Diana hated her wedding day so much. 

Doubts before the wedding 

Even before her wedding day, Diana was having doubts about marrying Prince Charles. Who could forget the couple’s televised engagement announcement when the interviewer asked if Charles and Diana were in love. Diana responded “of course,” while Charles said, “whatever love means.” In fact, Diana later revealed that this answer from Charles caught her completely off guard, revealing his lackluster attitude traumatized her. Things did not seem to be off to a good start for the young couple.

Lady Diana Spencer and Prince Charles
Lady Diana Spencer reveals her sapphire and diamond engagement ring with Prince Charles, Prince of Wales (Photo Credit: Tim Graham Photo Library via Getty Images)

Truthfully, it seems the couple didn’t really know each other before they got married. Although the pair dated for a few years before they got married, Diana later admitted that they met face to face only 13 times before she walked down the aisle.  

The wedding almost didn’t happen

Diana’s doubts about her marriage to Charles didn’t simmer in the days before her wedding. In fact, according to royal photographer Kevin Gavin, Diana was very upset the day before she was set to marry Charles at St. Paul’s Cathedral. Gavin was with Diana the day before the wedding because he had been given rare direct access to the royal family for the occasion. 

At Guards Polo Club
Princess Diana And Prince Charles At Guards Polo Club At Smith’s Lawn. (Photo Credit: Tim Graham Photo Library via Getty Images)

According to Gavin, “the day before [the wedding], I was with her at Smith’s Lawn. Prince Charles was playing polo, and she was there.” Gavin also revealed that she “was very upset and left” the polo match.  

The day before the wedding, Diana also had lunch with her sisters. During this meeting, Diana said “I can’t marry him. I can’t do this. This is absolutely unbelievable,” to which her sisters jokingly responded, “Well, bad luck, Duch. Your face is on the tea towel, so you’re too late to chicken out.”  

“Worst day of my life” 

In 2017, Diana: In Her Own Words aired, in which Diana revealed that her wedding day “was the worst day of my life.” The basis of this documentary is made up of recordings of Diana that were done at Kennsington Palace in 1992 and 1993. 

The wedding of Prince Charles and Lady Diana Spencer
The wedding of Prince Charles and Lady Diana Spencer at St Paul’s Cathedral in London, 29th July 1981. The couple leave the cathedral after the ceremony. (Photo Credit: Fox Photos/Hulton Archive/Getty Images)

In this documentary, Diana added, “If I could write my own script, I would have my husband go away with his woman and never come back.” 

Many of Diana’s doubts stemmed from Charles’ relationship with Camilla Parker-Bowles, whom he is now married to. In this documentary, Diana also describes confronting Charles about Camilla while on their honeymoon. Before getting married, Diana found a gift Charles had received from Camilla – a pair of cufflinks with two entwined Cs. 

Prince Charles and Princess Diana return from St Paul's
Prince Charles and Princess Diana return from St Paul’s cathedral, after their wedding at St Pauls Cathedral. 29th July 1981. (Photo Credit: Ron Burton /Mirrorpix/Getty Images)

She brought up this gift on their honeymoon, saying, “Camilla gave you those, didn’t she? He said, ‘Yes, so what’s wrong? They’re a present from a friend.’ And boy, did we have a row. Jealousy, total jealousy. And it was such a good idea, the two Cs. But it wasn’t that clever.” 

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Diana wasn’t the only one conflicted about the pairing. Prince Charles reportedly told his friends that he was in a “confused and anxious state of mind” and “terrified” of making a promise that he would later regret. Royal expert Ingrid Seward also claims that before the wedding Prince Charles was saying, “I want to do the right thing by my country. I want to do the right thing by my family.” This is a classic example of two people who are not right for each other. 

Madeline Hiltz

Madeline Hiltz is one of the authors writing for The Vintage News